I answered a bunch of your questions about orgasms.
Because what the hell else would I do, tbh?
Hey unicorn babe,
I thought today could be a really fun opportunity to hop on into The G-Spot and answer some of your most burning orgasm-related questions. I get so many of these that it feels like it’s high time I answer a few, eh?
Q: Is it bad to fake an orgasm with my partner, or should I tell them the truth?
Answer: When you fake an orgasm, you end up playing yourself in the long run because you end up in a fake orgasm loop. Your partner is in the dark. They think they're doing all the right things due to the faking. Meanwhile, faking an orgasm can lead to resentment, sexual frustration, and other bigger issues in relationships.
Plus, you're doing a disservice to your partner, as they are not learning the right moves to give pleasure to a future partner. Which means their next partner may fake orgasms .... and the cycle will continue.
Q: How many times / how often should I orgasm? Is there such a thing as ‘too many orgasms’?
Answer: There is no “right” amount of orgasms. There is only the right amount for YOU. Pleasure is not a finite resource. There is not a set number of orgasms one gets in this life and then, POOF! they’re gone.
You can keep on orgasming and orgasming and orgasming until you’re 110 years old and still have orgasms to spare. What you should ask yourself is this: Do I want another orgasm or am I sexually satisfied? If you’d like another one, go for it. If you’re all good, that’s fine, too. Pleasure is a magical thing. Enjoy it in any way you want.
~Good ReadsSsSssSsSs~
Warming Vibrators Are the Next Big Thing
I can’t lie, I’m crazy for warming vibrators. They have changed my LIFE, my dudes. They’re like taking a Valium for your entire vulva, vagina, and pelvic floor.
Allow me to explain my love for these self-warming toys and why everyone needs one ASAP. Firstly: It helps with pain during sex.
5 Mistakes You’re Making with Your Sex Toys, According to a Sexologist
Sexologist and SKYN Sex & Intimacy Expert, Gigi Engle, stresses how important a good toy can be: “The truth is, two in three women need clitoral stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. Sex toys help bridge the gap that intercourse inevitably forms due to a lack of clitoral action.” So, before you forget to replace the batteries, Engle helps us understand what common mistakes people make with their sex toys so you can avoid them and keep doing your thing.
Does Porn Normalize Sexual Violence? A New Study Reveals Troubling Signs.
Porn is everywhere. And while it is not inherently bad, the type of content that is made has shown up some seriously troubling, yet not exactly shocking signs: Most popular porn depicts extreme sex acts, violence against women, and other forms on nonconsensual sex.
As Vice put it, is that “videos containing sexual violence are being packaged in a way to pass them off as socially acceptable, leading to a disconnect for the viewers on the boundaries between sex and sexual violence.”
~Ask Gigi~
Why Are We Still So Confused By Age-Differences in Relationships?
Keep in mind that age-differences can provide a whole new world of exploration - not everything is about hard penises and PIV sex. There is so much more to sex than that. Be open minded to learning about each other's fantasies, goals, and desires. Explore together. But you absolutely MUST talk about sex and be willing to be vulnerable.
That’s it for me this week, pals. I love you. Remember to stay hydrated and have lots of orgasms this week. Now that things are slowly opening up again, we need to pace ourselves. DRINK WATER and also rosé because, frankly, you deserve all the good things in life.
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