How to use stainless steel s8x toys.
Yeah, mental toys. Not even playing.
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Hey babe,
Stainless steel sex toys are having a serious moment. Did you do a double-take after reading that? That was no error. The best thing to happen to your sex toy collection: Stainless. Steel.
Now this may sound a little bit (or very) intimidating, but don’t worry. These toys offer truly intense stimulation, are easy to use, and last for a lifetime. While they do high-key look like they’re medieval torture devices straight out of the Tower of London, they truly are fantastic for sex, no matter how kinky or vanilla your persuasion.
They have weight to offer unique internal pressure, texture, and serious visual appeal. Stainless steel toys are different than other toys and deserve attention.
If you’re feeling curious (and maybe a little bit turned on), here is everything you need to know about using stainless steel sex toys to have a truly epic sexual adventure.
The appeal of stainless steel sex toys.
Firstly, while these toys are, like, completely terrifying at first glance, they’re actually freakin’ gorgeous. They look like lil works of very scary-cool art. They’re also hella shiny.
Stainless steel toys have weight. They can add pressure and intensity to your sexual play without having to put in a lot of effort. These toys engage the entire clitoral structure (both internal and external), can massage the G-spot with the pressure of a deep tissue massage, and even bring the nerve-rich anal opening into play.
These toys really make the most of gravity.
The benefits of using stainless steel toys.
There are so many benefits to using stainless steel toys. Besides their weight, they are perfect for anyone who finds ABS plastic or silicone toys to be lacking in sensation.
They’re also amazing for temperature play. You can pop them in the fridge for an icy cool-down or in the microwave for a little warm loving. Be sure to test the toy's temperature with your fingers before placing it on the genitals. No one wants to get burned!
Lastly, these toys are dope AF because they are SO easy to clean! You can, no joke, drop a stainless steel toy into a pot of boiling water to disinfect it. Doing some dishes? Pop them onto the top rack of the dishwasher and call it a day.
Keep in mind that some of these toys do vibrate and contain electromechanical components. For these, warm water and soap will do the trick for cleaning.
How to use stainless steel sex toys.
Always use lube.
Stainless steel toys are compatible with all forms of lube (oil-based, silicone, or water-based). Because they are metal, you want to be sure they have a lot of slip when you’re using them. Friction is the enemy. The more lube the better.
Go slowly.
You want to take your time to get to know your toy before you go shoving it all up in yourself or a partner. Be gentle, take your time, and don’t be too aggressive when it when you start. Listen to what your body is telling you.
Some advice for anal use.
Use a generous amount of lube. Insert the toy into the anal opening slowly. Be sure the receiver is relaxed and breathing into the sensation. Communicate during the play to ensure everyone is comfortable. If the anus is tensed up, penetration can cause pain. This is not normal. If anything hurts, stop, take a beat and decide if you want to continue.
Toy recommendations to get you started on your journey.
For anal play: Njoy Wand and b-Vibe
An Njoy wand is perfect for prostate play … and all play, really. The balls on either end of this toy are fantastic for deep stimulation of the p-spot.
This small metal plug from b-Vibe is also adorable and great for beginners.
For vaginas: L’Acier and Le Wand
L'Acier Shop has mastered the art of destiny in metal toy with power vibration. A true winner.
If you’re looking for something on the smaller side, the chromed steel mini vibe collection from Le Wand is gorgeous, sleek, and powerful.
Stainless steel toys may seem kinky, but they are accessible for one and all. They’re an easy way to up the ante on your sex toy collection and invest in one-of-a-kind toys that will last you a lifetime.
This week’s mantras:
I deserve nice things.
I am worthy of pleasure.
I will love myself.
I love you. Have a great week!
XOXO Auntie Gigi
Part of this newsletter originally appeared on Mashable.
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